tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8195403417125263851.post1388880051130038856..comments2010-06-09T13:41:38.732-04:00Comments on Waste of Paper: Datingpetitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02300995079113125006noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8195403417125263851.post-54431216016699163622010-06-09T13:41:38.732-04:002010-06-09T13:41:38.732-04:00That's one thing I've never understood abo...That's one thing I've never understood about dating. I dunno if it's just our culture, or if human beings love giving things labels. Perhaps it's a way of making something tangible and familiar. A comfort blanket. Seems like as soon as you go on a date with someone, you're bonded forever.<br /><br />Either way, I dislike the fact that people can't just go on regular old dates anymore. It's a dying trend, but a very important one too. Seems like everyone is just dying to grow up and HAVE something. People question you if you're a free spirit trying to make a decision, but later go on to judge your relationship if it turns out to be a bad decision. It makes no sense really.<br /><br />All I know is, it's not good to be rushed...or labelled...or anything of the sort. I'm sure as hell that people just wanna be happy. You want to be happy. And what makes people happy differs from person to person. What makes a good relationship is when you find the one that is happy when you are happy. I'm sure it takes a long time. Few people ever find the one, and if they do, sometimes times change and they end up breaking up or divorcing for one reason or another. But instead of rushing in, some early warning signs can be seen when you date. There lies the importance of it, in my opinion anyway.<br /><br />At least you seem to be optimistic about the future, that's wonderful. You're an amazing person, so keep that head up.Talena Pearsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17738778417433357217noreply@blogger.com